Here’s an eye-opening statistic: “Most Americans will spend more time comparison-shopping for flat screen TVs than searching for the best doctor possible.”Kairol Rosenthal, an author who cites this statistic, is a cancer survivor who proudly tells of how she works the system:
“I approach the challenges of the system as if I’m on a personal vendetta. I crush the system like a superhero who has grown a hundred times my size. I sleep at night knowing I have done everything within my power to influence my outcomes. This is my definition of well-being.”
That’s beyond proactive.
Not everyone would put it so zealously, but she’s got a point about the importance of getting second opinions. We don’t survive cancer by just sitting back and waiting for medical professionals to do things for us. We’ve got to question, to research, to learn. We’ve got to insist that our doctors give us the time and information we need to make informed decisions. We’ve got to learn the art of negotiating with insurance companies. We’ve got to keep track of those test results and make sure they get forwarded to the proper specialists. We’ve got to become our own best advocate.
I’ve been fortunate, that way. I feel blessed to have the sorts of doctors who give me far more than the time of day, and aren’t put off by talk of second opinions. But that doesn’t mean I can slack off on my homework.
There is an alternative, of course. We could just sit home and watch that flat-screen TV.
